About Holly
Holly Duffy is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 15 years of clinical experience in California. She focuses on helping people set clear goals and make practical changes in their daily lives.
Background and approach
Her style is warm and creative, and she balances honesty with empathy to meet each person where they are. Holly sees every person as unique and adapts sessions to individual needs and aims.
She often uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which focuses on changing unhelpful thoughts and habits through concrete actions. She blends that work with creative or expressive techniques when those help build self-esteem and improve relationships.
Sometimes simple talk therapy is the right place to start, and Holly will use it alone or alongside expressive methods depending on a person’s preferences. She aims to help clients notice patterns in thinking and behavior and to try small experiments that can lead to meaningful change.
Sessions emphasize practical steps as well as emotional processing. Holly also supports people dealing with a wide range of concerns, including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, addiction, and ADHD.
She pays attention to attachment and life-stage questions such as adoption, aging, caregiver stress, and blended family challenges. Her approach is collaborative and down-to-earth.
She helps people clarify goals, try new strategies, and track progress. Those who want both creativity and structure in their work may find her style a good fit.
Therapeutic approaches and online options
Holly commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy in online work. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and habits and trying concrete actions to change them; it can help with anxiety, depression, and patterns that get in the way of daily life. Emotionally-Focused Therapy centers on feelings and how they shape relationships, helping people understand attachment needs and improve closeness and communication.Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Holly will listen to your goals, try approaches that fit your situation, and adjust methods over time. She often blends direct, action-oriented work with creative or expressive techniques when that serves the goals you name together.
Online sessions are available by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging. Video lets you work face-to-face and practice skills together. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or when a shorter check-in fits your day. Live chat and text messaging are useful for brief check-ins, homework, or ongoing support between longer sessions. These options make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into busy schedules.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating disorders
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 15 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English