About Shirley
Shirley Semel uses a person-centered approach to help people work through life’s hard moments. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist in California with eight years of clinical experience.
Background and approach
Shirley focuses on practical steps people can use to manage overwhelm and rebuild satisfying relationships. She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, anger, and addiction concerns.
She also supports people facing intimacy issues, eating and sleeping struggles, career crossroads, and coping with major life changes. Shirley pays attention to how family history and communication patterns affect daily life.
Her sessions blend client-centered listening with cognitive behavioral tools and psychodynamic ideas. That means she listens closely, helps clients notice unhelpful thinking patterns, and looks at recurring life themes that shape feelings and choices.
She also uses solution-focused techniques to set clear, manageable goals. Shirley has experience leading groups focused on anger management, domestic violence education, and addiction relapse prevention.
She aims to create a nonjudgmental space where people can speak openly and begin to try new ways of coping. Many clients work on improving communication, boundary setting, and healthier routines.
Her approach is straightforward and supportive. Shirley often combines short-term strategies for relief with deeper work on patterns that keep people stuck.
People who want a compassionate listener and clear tools for change may find her style helpful.
Approaches that guide online sessions
Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and reflecting what matters to the person. It helps people feel heard and build confidence to try changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at thoughts and behaviors that keep stress and anxiety going and teaches practical skills to shift them.Shirley uses these approaches together to match each person’s needs. She will work collaboratively to decide which methods fit best for your goals and preferences. Together you’ll set small steps, test what works, and adjust the plan as needed.
Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules. Video calls let you have face-to-face conversation, while phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited. Live chat or text-based messaging can be useful for shorter check-ins, quick coaching, or when writing out thoughts feels more comfortable. These options make it easier to keep sessions consistent during busy weeks and across time zones within the same country.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also works with
- Addictions
- Anger management
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating disorders
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Mood disorders
- Parenting issues
- Self esteem
- Sleeping disorders
- Trauma and abuse
- Women's issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 8 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English