About Jeanette
Jeanette Abney is a licensed marriage and family therapist who brings 20 years of clinical experience to her work. She focuses on practical steps people can use to reduce stress and anxiety, manage addictive behaviors, and improve relationship and family dynamics.
Background and approach
Jeanette aims to make the first step toward help feel manageable and straightforward. She creates a calm space where clients can say what they think and feel without judgment.
Sessions are collaborative and goal-focused, with attention to what feels most useful in everyday life. Jeanette listens for patterns that cause pain and offers ways to change them.
Her background includes many years helping people cope with anger, communication problems, and family of origin issues. She also addresses concerns such as abandonment, adoption and foster care questions, attachment difficulties, and blended family challenges.
Work with cancer-related stress and aging or geriatric issues is part of her practice. Jeanette supports people working through divorce and separation, domestic violence aftercare, codependency, and substance use challenges.
She pays attention to control issues and to coping with natural or human-caused disasters. Her approach balances practical coping skills with attention to emotions.
Clients can expect straightforward talk, skill-building, and a focus on realistic steps forward. Jeanette practices in California and works with English-speaking clients, including those outside the U.S. who connect remotely.
How practical approaches meet online therapy
Evidence-based techniques here focus on clear, actionable strategies people can try between sessions. One common approach uses problem-solving and skill building to reduce stress and anxiety by breaking issues into manageable steps and practicing new reactions. This helps when worries feel overwhelming and you want concrete ways to cope.Another approach targets behaviors linked to addiction and codependency by identifying triggers and building alternative routines. It emphasizes small changes that lower risk and improve daily functioning. A third strand of work centers on communication and family patterns, helping people notice interaction styles and practice new ways of relating that reduce conflict.
Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist works collaboratively to match techniques to a person's goals, needs, and preferences. Together they review what helps and adjust the plan over time so the work stays useful and realistic.
Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and styles. Video allows face-to-face conversation, phone can be a shorter check-in with less bandwidth, and messaging gives ongoing support between meetings. These options make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into a busy life.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Experience
- 20 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English