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Nanette Tangkeko, LMFT

Practical support for stress and relationship recovery

About Nanette

Nanette Tangkeko is a licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in California. She brings nine years of clinical experience supporting people who are coping with stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem and the fallout from difficult relationships.

Background and approach

Her approach is straightforward and focused on helping people take the next practical step toward feeling better. She creates a calm space for clients to talk through painful experiences without judgment.

Sessions focus on identifying unhelpful patterns, building coping skills, and restoring confidence after relationship harm. Nanette emphasizes clear goals so progress feels concrete and measurable.

Her work often addresses life transitions and the daily strains that wear people down. She supports people dealing with compassion fatigue, caregiver stress, and questions about life purpose.

She also helps those navigating multicultural concerns and issues related to attachment and communication. Nanette uses a mix of approaches that match each person’s needs.

She draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to shift thinking patterns and Mindfulness Therapy to strengthen present-moment awareness. When deeper history matters, she brings in psychodynamic ideas to understand how past relationships shape current behavior.

People who benefit most tend to want practical tools and thoughtful reflection. Sessions are collaborative and paced to each person’s comfort.

The aim is steady, achievable change rather than quick fixes.

How Nanette’s Approaches Translate to Online Therapy

Nanette often uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors; this method provides specific tools for anxiety, low mood, and relationship stress. Mindfulness Therapy is another frequent element, teaching simple attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and increase present-moment calm. Psychodynamic ideas may be used when it helps to look at how past relationships and family of origin patterns influence current choices.

Finding the right blend of approaches is part of the work. She will discuss your goals and preferences and together you will choose strategies that match your needs. Sessions are collaborative, with options adjusted over time as progress is made.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow real-time face-to-face conversation, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat supports shorter check-ins or moments when typing feels simpler, and text-based messaging lets you share thoughts between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives and to keep steady contact while working toward change.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can Nanette help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, grief, self-esteem struggles, compassion fatigue, relationship and family concerns, and coping with life changes. Additional focus areas include attachment issues, autism and Asperger syndrome, caregiver stress, codependency, communication problems, and multicultural concerns.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Sessions are practical and collaborative with a mix of skill-building and reflection. She helps people set clear goals and practices techniques you can use between sessions.
How much experience does she have?
She has nine years of professional experience offering therapy to people with a range of life and relationship concerns.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She is a licensed marriage and family therapist - LMFT - practicing in California.
Which languages are supported and can she work with international clients?
Sessions are offered in English and she is able to work with international clients.
What session formats are offered?
She provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist factors and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on therapist availability.

Specialties and expertise

Experience
9 years
Licensed
California
Languages
English