About Eric
Eric Bolella uses a practical, trauma-informed approach to help people who feel stuck or overwhelmed. He is a licensed marriage and family therapist who offers straightforward conversation and focused strategies.
Background and approach
Eric writes plainly and helps people name what is happening, then works with them to try manageable changes. He trained at Central Connecticut State University and has about ten years of clinical experience in community settings.
That work included outpatient programs in New Britain, Connecticut, and leadership roles in therapeutic group homes for adolescents. He also managed a state-funded domestic violence program that combined behavior change work with family healing efforts.
In practice Eric favors solution-focused methods mixed with client-centered conversation. He pays close attention to trauma and to how relationships and family history shape daily problems.
He draws on narrative ideas and mindfulness to help people separate painful stories from who they are now. Typical concerns Eric addresses include grief, depression, anxiety, stress, and relationship and intimacy-related issues.
He also helps with parenting stress, caregiver strain, body image and issues tied to attachment or abandonment. He works with mood challenges including bipolar disorder and disruptive mood symptoms.
Sessions are offered by telehealth. He aims for clear goals and small steps that can fit into busy lives.
Eric emphasizes collaboration and practical tools people can use between sessions.
Approaches for online work and practical care
Eric commonly uses cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness-based techniques in online sessions. CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing them with simple experiments; it can help with anxiety, depression, and stressful day-to-day patterns. Mindfulness therapy teaches basic attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and support calmer responses to strong emotions.Finding the right mix of methods is part of the work. He treats the choice of approach as a collaborative decision based on each person’s goals, life situation, and what they find useful. Over the first few sessions he will check in about what helps and adjust plans accordingly.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video lets people use body language and deeper conversation. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or when someone prefers not to be on camera. Live chat and text messaging provide brief check-ins or ongoing support between longer sessions. These options aim to make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into everyday life.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Domestic violence
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Gender dysphoria
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sleeping disorders
- Stress, Anxiety
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 10 years
- Licensed
- Connecticut
- Languages
- English