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Andre Vilarinho, LMFT

Practical, relationship-focused therapy with warmth

About Andre

Andre Vilarinho is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing from New York. He offers virtual therapy across New York and Connecticut and focuses on helping people facing anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship strain, parenting challenges, and stress.

Background and approach

His tone in sessions is casual and warm, and he aims to create a trusting space while also offering direct feedback when needed. Andre draws on evidence-based methods to help people change how they think, feel, and act in relationships.

He pays attention to the impact of identity and life context on the problems people bring. Sessions often focus on improving communication, managing shame and guilt, and strengthening self-worth.

He has five years of clinical experience across community mental health, group practices, and nonprofit and for-profit organizations. Much of that work involved supporting people connected to others who struggle with anxiety, depression, or addiction, and working with parents around parenting concerns.

Andre describes his style as relaxed, thoughtful, and optimistic. He aims to build a collaborative plan with clear goals and practical steps.

The work can be direct at times, and he balances challenge with support. People who choose him typically want down-to-earth guidance for relationship issues, career strain, identity-related stress, or recovery from trauma.

He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging as ways to meet depending on what fits the person's life.

Approaches that guide online work and what they do

Andre uses evidence-based techniques such as cognitive behavioral approaches that focus on changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors to reduce anxiety and depression, and structural family ideas that look at how roles and patterns in relationships shape problems. He also draws on humanistic methods that emphasize empathy and self-understanding to strengthen self-love and personal growth.

Figuring out the right approach is a team effort. The therapist will talk with clients about goals, try methods that fit their style, and adjust plans as progress is made. This collaborative process helps determine whether a focus on thoughts, relationship patterns, or personal growth is most useful.

Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversations for skills practice, phone sessions can work when bandwidth is limited, and messaging options make it easier to check in between sessions or fit counseling into a busy day. These options make therapy easier to schedule and keep consistent for people with varied routines.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist support?
Areas include addictions, anxiety, depression, relationship and family issues, parenting concerns, stress, trauma and abuse, LGBT-related concerns, self-esteem, intimacy, career strain, ADHD, and coaching.
How would you describe the therapy style?
Sessions tend to be casual, relaxed, and thoughtful. The therapist balances encouragement with direct feedback and works collaboratively on clear goals.
What is the therapist's background and experience?
He has five years of clinical experience working in community mental health, group practices, and nonprofit and for-profit settings.
What credentials and location apply to this therapist?
He is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with licenses in New York and Connecticut and practices from New York.
Which languages are offered and are international clients supported?
Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available online?
The therapist offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How are costs and billing handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin therapy?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Specialties and expertise

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Experience
5 years
Licensed
Connecticut, New York
Languages
English